Our Code of Conduct - Peace, love, unity and respect
We adopted our formal code of conduct very early on in our journey, but for those who haven’t been before, and just as a friendly reminder, here it is again…
We believe that everyone has the right to enjoy themselves safely and consensually in a space free from all forms of discrimination, bullying, harassment or judgement.
Which is why we have adopted NEST – a set of social guidelines. NEST is like a "social insurance policy" - something we have just in case something does go a bit wonky.
It’s a code of behaviours that is all about having a good time while being welcoming, safe and consensual.
The Code
I agree that everyone has the right to enjoy themselves safely and consensually in a space free from all forms of discrimination, bullying, harassment or judgement.
I agree to treat others respectfully, to act responsibly and to be held accountable for my own behaviour, regardless of intoxication.
I understand that my words and actions may have (unintended) consequences. I respect another person’s right to identify my behaviour as unwelcome, regardless of my intentions. I agree to stop doing anything that is identified as unwelcome, if asked to do so.
I understand that everyone is responsible for ensuring a positive environment, including me. I acknowledge that fear of “spoiling the vibe” is not an excuse for inaction, as any behaviour that warrants intervention has already spoiled the vibe for someone. I agree to assist (or find someone who can assist) anyone who is subjected to unwelcome behaviours.
I agree to prioritise marginalised people’s safety over privileged people’s comfort. This means that I understand unconscious bias and power imbalances and will take these into account with regard to complaints (and if necessary, challenge counter-complaints that ignore them).
The only kind of fun we're trying to stop is the kind where one person is enjoying it but the other person isn't.
No one wants to have to deal with this stuff, including us. But this stuff happens, and that's no fun at all.
If at any point you feel uncomfortable at Together, you can approach anyone at the Awamu Café and ask for ‘Angela’. No matter how busy the team may look, we are there to listen and help. Our first and most important action is to ensure that everyone feels safe.
Please read more about the code of conduct and share and discuss with your friend and family.